my toxic trait
I've been occasionally messaging them and they haven't been responding all day. Clearly, they're just too tired or legitimately too busy to respond.
Or maybe they hate me; I should send another message to apologize.
Don't be so needy; it's not like you actively need the attention right now. They'll get in contact with you when they're ready.
But what if they don't though 😭
bad socialization skills, tipsy talk
I am BAD at staying in contact with people. It absolutely boils down to “I need something that I know THEY’RE interested in talking about AND is big enough to warrant a ‘hey, significant update message’”
Deities forbid I start a year long hiatus with “I found a half eaten donut on the ground” to a professional patisserie. I HAVE TO BE INTERESTING DAMMIT!!!!
vague subpost, nothing here
I hate so much that I find out about some stupid ass youtube drama and I'm super into knowing the details, despite not actively following the participants before this.
Emotional/relationship conflict of other people gives me strength. I mean, it's absolutely none of my business and I won't go prying into people's private affairs.......but also 👀🍿
anyone got any favourite fables? particularly ones with animal characters :)
gender things (~)
Also remembering that the last time I did this, I started to really fem up my outfit options and...due to other things going on, my mental health declined as a result. I wasn't able to "dress as myself" during the week and had to deal with the intense pressure to "be a lady" 8 hours of the day.
Gotta be careful to not repeat that spiral 🙃
I'm trying to go into work once a week and.....my wardrobe barely allows that. Thanks to working on the West coast for so long, I have plenty of work appropriate tshirts; maybe one or two shirts that are Acceptable East Coast Office Wear.
Guess part of my paycheck is going to updating my wardrobe a bit.....but I'll be damned if I let it be boring
A few that I like that I wanna try to redo. There's also a landscape that I can't find right now.....
Also some of my old oil paintings. I should get back into that so I can hang something I'm proud of up
I landed on pizza. Yay!
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