Reminder that you, yes YOU can be abusive even if you aren't a Bad Person
We tend to think of abuse as something that only bad people do, but the truth is often more subtle than that. Abuse as a constant pattern indicates a bad person but we are imperfect beings.
Be sure that when you and someone else face a hard situation together that you aren't straying into DARVO territory, for example. Don't let yourself become someone else's abuser.
(~) Meta on Abuse
but tbh, I would say this is more of a systemic issue. we were taught since day 1 to listen to authority, whether it'd be your teacher, parents, or police officer (cough cough). but once these people start to make you uncomfortable (I'm talking about if they actually beat you up and shit) it'll be extremely hard for the abused to speak up, because they would feel that it's not the correct thing to do.