@minty_da like if there was ever a flying/dragon Pokemon - it SHOULD be flygon - named literally after: 1) a bug, and 2) a dragon ??
@minty_da the fact that flygon exists while this fact is true is bullshit.
there's no equilibrium state between queerness and cishetness. there's no set of 'real' genders or sexualities that could exist as stable counterpoints to the normative, heterosexual binary. queerness is a state of difference from the norm, and the norm exists thru and for the repression of everyone who falls outside it
@noelle there is something satisfying about everybody finally realizing that he’s as much of a creep as we all thought he was already. Took y’all long enough....
Which is why i say “bi lesbians are real” not “bi lesbians are valid”. All I’m doing is saying they exist because they do. They don’t need me to tell them that they’re valid in order for them to continue existing, lol.
I don’t think it’s bad to tell someone they’re valid, and i think a lot of people like hearing it; it’s more that i think our general focus on telling people that they’re valid makes us think that “what the community says is valid is OK” and conversely “what the community doesn’t say is valid is not” and i don’t think that’s a healthy mindset in general
It means well but it is based on a concept that we have to seek validation from others or that we can decline to offer it if we so choose; neither are or should be true
@chimerror well you will get no complaints from -me- about this
PSA, autism, please boost
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